要培养孩子的自立能力,就必须让孩子从小养成动手做事的好习惯,这主要靠父母在日常生活中做个有心人。比如,早上起床,可以让孩子叠被子、扫地;饭前用抹布抹干净桌子,准备碗筷;饭后收拾餐桌、洗刷餐具;平时晾晾鞋子、洗洗手帕和袜子……最好是父母在做这些事情的时候,让孩子来帮忙,逐步培养孩子独立做事的意识和习惯。 To cultivate their children’s self-reliance, we must let the children develop good habits of doing things at an early age, which mainly rely on their parents to be considerate in their daily lives. For example, get up in the morning, children can be stacked quilts, sweeping the floor; before razing wipe clean the table with a dish, prepare chopsticks; clean up the table after dinner, wash dishes; usually dry the shoes, wash handkerchiefs and socks ... Do these things, let the children to help, and gradually develop their own children’s awareness and habits of doing things.