即使夫妻感情很好的家庭,也存在着玩笑式的对孩子感情的争夺。尤其是母亲们,普遍比她们的丈夫更喜欢孩子的依恋和缠绕,更喜欢孩子以初谙世事的语言说出对母亲的感情偏向。孩子环抱着母亲的脖子,带着人之初最鲜活的奶音,母亲也就放下手中的一切来应和他。常听到年轻妈妈满脸骄傲地报怨道;我儿子自小粘我,跟他爸爸敬而远之。星期天也不眼爸爸回爷爷家,只跟外婆和姨妈们亲。孩子的恋母情结受到母亲有意识的引 Even if the husband and wife have a good relationship with their family, there is also a joke-like struggle for their children’s feelings. Mothers, in particular, generally prefer children’s attachment and entanglement to their husbands, preferring children to bias their mothers in naïve languages. Children surrounded the mother’s neck, with people’s most vivid milk sounds, the mother will put down everything in his hands to deal with him. I often hear the complacent young mama face proudly; my son childhood stick me, with his father at arm’s length. Sunday is not dad back to my grandfather’s house, only with grandmother and aunt who pro. The child’s Oedipine complex is consciously motivated by the mother