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很多父母都有这样的体会:孩子十五六岁时,总喜欢和父母对着干,家长的话根本听不进去,遇到什么事,宁可憋着也不跟父母说,这种状况一般会持续两三年。父母们很悲哀,不知为什么亲生骨肉要这样处处和自己作对。心理分析学家把这段专爱和家长、老师“作对”的青少年时期称为“逆反期”。“逆反期”是孩子由儿童向成人过渡的关键时期,若不加以正确的引导与疏导,将会使孩子对人对事冷漠、多疑,学习被动,精神委靡,形成偏执、对抗社会的病态性格,甚至造成家庭悲剧。
Many parents have the following experience: when their children are 15 or 16 years old, they always prefer to work with their parents. If the parents do not listen to anything, they will rather hold back and say nothing to their parents. This situation usually lasts for two or three year. Parents are very sad, I do not know why so flesh and blood to be against each other everywhere. Psychoanalysts call this adolescent, who “loves to be right” with parents and teachers, as the “reverse period.” “Reversal” is the crucial period from children to adults. Without correct guidance and guidance, children will be indifferent and suspicious about people, be passive in learning, be mentally depraved, be paranoid and antagonize the morbid character of society , And even caused a family tragedy.