笔者的儿子在美国上小学四年级时,学规定,凡是学生在学校一天内连续3次挨批评,师就必须给孩子家长打一次电话。有段时间,子同一个实习老师较上了劲儿。结果,家里几天天接到老师的电话。　　学校这一招是用来对付那些任意放纵自己子的美国父母的。而我们常常就“过度反应”了。 When the author’s son was in fourth grade in elementary school in the United States, he stipulated that whenever a student is criticized three times in a day at school, the teacher must make a phone call to the child’s parents. For a period of time, the son of the same intern than on the awkward. As a result, the family received a few days of the teacher’s phone call. The school trick is to deal with American parents who arbitrarily indulge themselves. And we often over-react.