关键词1:我早就说当父母说出“我早就说你能做好,只是你之前不用心”时,孩子会认为自己做好了没得到鼓励,而没做好的事情却一再被提起。总将孩子以前没做好的事拿出来做比较,有翻旧帐的意味,虽然肯定了其能力,却多少有点批评的味道。总之,和孩子说话 Keyword 1: I have long said that when parents say “I’ve said you can do well, but you did not mind before”, the children will think they did not get encouraged, but did not do a good thing again and again Be lifted To compare the things that the children did not do well beforehand, and to get over the old account means that although it affirms its ability, it is somewhat somewhat criticized. In short, talk to your child