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孩子从小到大,几乎没有不挨批评的。大错没有,小错不断,这是大多数孩子在成长过程中会出现的特征。孩子做错事怎么办?自然需要大人的引导和批评。身为家长,你会正确地批评孩子吗?批评孩子不能情绪化有的家长只要一发现孩子犯了错,便大呼小叫地做河东狮吼状。若此时恰好遭遇家长情绪不好,那么,家长就会把心中积压的所有坏情绪都借题发挥,宣泄到孩子的身上。家长的坏脾气不断升级,面目也一定越来越狰狞。更要命的是,此时的家长往往只顾着发泄,却早已忘记了孩子错在哪里,因而也就不可能帮
Children grow up with little to no criticism. No big mistakes, small mistakes, this is most of the characteristics of children will appear in the growth process. What to do when children make mistakes? Naturally need adult guidance and criticism. As a parent, you will correctly criticize the child? Critics of the child can not be emotional Some parents just found a child made a mistake, they shouted to do Hedong roar-like. If at this time happens to encounter parents bad mood, then, parents will put all the bad mood backlog under play to vent to the child’s body. Parents of the bad temper escalating face is bound to more and more fickle. Even worse, the parents at this time are often just vent, but have long forgotten where the child is wrong, so it is impossible to help