见老同事冯大姐终于走出痛失老伴儿的阴影,我就试探地问她:“你是靠啥变得笑口常开呢?”“靠自己呗!”冯大姐笑着就给我讲了起来,“你看儿女们都各有各的事,哪有时间来陪我呢?不过孩子们也发话了,说您不妨续个伴儿吧,我们不干涉。可哪有那么合适的人选呢?闷了总去找别人聊吧,可人家都有事,谁又能天天陪你聊呢?所以我思来想去,觉得也只有自己做自己的伴儿,才能自解 See old colleague Feng Sister finally out of the shadows of the painful wife, I tentatively asked her: ”“ ”You rely on what has become a joke often open? I told them, "Do you think children have their own things, and how can they spend time with me? But the children also spoke, saying that you might as well continue to be with us, and we will not interfere. The right candidate? Bored always find someone to talk to it, but others are things, who can accompany you every day to talk about it? So I think about it, I feel that only their own to do their own children, in order to self-solution