我们常听到别人谈起感情,总说自己有难以愈合的伤口。这个伤口就是心理的伤口,来源于一些感情伤害,尤其是外来的故意伤害。可总有很多人在恋爱或婚姻过程中,采用一些伤害对方的方式来争取爱情,那简直就是用抗议甚至别人反感的方式获取对方的重视,效果可想而知。可以说,故意伤害就是爱情的超级杀手,频繁伤害给恋人关系增加了很多怨气,总有一天会爆发。在现实爱情中,有哪些常见的、不应该使用的伤害对方的 We often hear people talk about feelings, always say that they have a difficult wound to heal. This wound is a psychological wound, from some emotional damage, especially the intentional damage from outside. There are always a lot of people who love each other in the process of being in love or marriage, and using some ways of hurting each other to fight for love. That is to say, it is simply to obtain the attention of each other by means of protest and even dislike of others. The effect can be imagined. It can be said that intentional injury is the super killer of love, frequent injuries to the relationship between lovers increased a lot of grievances, one day will erupt. In real love, what are the common, should not be used to hurt each other’s