婚后,繁重的家务、经济负担、教子成才、扶养老人等问题接踵而来,夫妻之间难免出现些矛盾。这些矛盾一般不是什么大的问题,只要处理方法得当,都是可以化解的。●缄默当对方发脾气、火气正旺时,你最好保持沉默,只管做你手中的事。待对方气消后,再彼此交换意见,找出原因。切不可 After the marriage, heavy household chores, financial burdens, teaching children and raising the elderly are problems that inevitably arise between husband and wife. These contradictions are generally not major issues, as long as they are properly handled, they can be resolved. ● Silence When the other temper, anger is good, you’d better remain silent, just do what you do. When the other party is angry, exchange views with each other to find out why. Must not