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教育孩子,一般书籍、杂志上大多宣传“宽容教育”,大多数妈妈也这样做。但他们同时也担心:孩子打人、睡懒觉、不学习,如果只是一味宽容,耐心说教,孩子就会变得更加我行我素,不听教导,这样下去孩子恐怕无法适应以后的社会竞争。教育孩子时,到底应宽容还是应严厉?日本立正大学教授、国际幼儿教育协会会长松原达哉认为,父母要根据孩子的年龄、性别、健康状况、时间、地点、行动内容等,采取不同的教育方法,做到宽而有度、严而有章、宽严相济。松原达哉通过以下8种经常出现的情况告诉父母该怎样正确选择教育孩子的方式。
To educate children, most books and magazines mostly promote “tolerance education”, and most mothers do the same. But at the same time, they are also worried that children may be beaten, sleep late, and do not learn. If they simply tolerate and patiently pretend that children will become more disciplined and do not listen to teaching, the child may not be able to adapt to future social competition. To educate children, in the end should be tolerated or should be harsh? Ritsumei Risheng University professor, International Association of Early Childhood Education Matsubara Daizai believes that parents should be based on children’s age, gender, health status, time, place, action content, take a different Education methods, be wide and degree, strict and chapter, temper and leniency. Matsubara Damasa tells parents how to choose the correct way to educate their children through the following eight frequently occurring situations.