客家人一直秉承着礼仪之邦尊老爱幼的优良传统,从轮流赡养长辈或抚育孤儿的风俗中便可见一斑。这种轮流制被称作“轮饭契”。我的父亲早逝,年迈的母亲就由我们兄弟轮流赡养。我们尊重老人家的意愿,先是每家一年转,后来按月轮。未轮到时,逢年过节,或家有客人,均会请老人家一起用餐,以尽孝心。母亲爱喝口小酒,我 The Hakka people have always followed the fine tradition of respecting children and young people in the ceremonial tradition, as can been seen in the custom of taking turns to support elders or raising orphans. This system of rotation is called “Charter ”. My father died young, and the elderly mother was taken care of by our brothers. We respect the wishes of the elderly, first of each one year turn, then by month round. When it is not our turn, we will invite elderly people to dine together on a festive occasion or at home, in order to fulfill our heart. Mother love to drink a small wine, me