我国传统的思想教育,是要人们做人顶天立地,宁折不弯。因此,人们从心理上对柔弱有一种误解,认为柔弱就是懦弱,就是屈从,就是任人宰割。老子根据对自然和社会现象的深刻洞察,认为柔弱是顺应自然法则的、是生路,强硬是违反自然法则的、是死路,并提出“柔 The traditional ideological education in our country requires that people should be more generous, rather than bend. Therefore, people psychologically have a misunderstanding of weakness, that weakness is weakness, that is, subjection, that is, slaughtering. According to the profound insight into the phenomena of nature and society, Lao Tzu considered that being weak is a complication of the laws of nature, is a way of life, and is a violation of the laws of nature and is a dead end, and proposes ”soft"