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男女双方婚姻行为所产生的内在的、主观的愿望、目的或方向,被称为婚姻动机。它是激励男女双方结婚或离婚的内在心理动机。据《青年研究》1992年第二期的资料表明,某部祖祖辈辈生长于地道农家的1336名士兵,一当改转为志愿兵,即左脚刚跳出“农门”,右脚才跨入“薪金阶层”,竟100％的开始将物色对象的视线移向了都市,努力改变家族“面朝黄土背朝天”的劳作形式,使娶城镇姑娘为妻,世代吃商品粮的夙愿成为事实。与此同时,就在同一军事社区,甚至同一营房中的青年军官群体中,传统的择偶意向却受到冲击,发生了新的变化:一部分人将“丘比特”之箭开始瞄准个体女郎。有的已击中目标,有的正张弓待发。而且这一现象有发展趋势。本文就青年军官选择个体女郎为妻这一现象作些具体分析。
The inherent, subjective wish, purpose or direction created by the marriage between men and women is called motivation for marriage. It is the intrinsic motivation to motivate both men and women to get married or divorce. According to the data from “Youth Studies”, No. 2, 1992, 1336 soldiers of a certain ancestor who grew up in genuine farmhouses turned to volunteers once their left foot had just jumped out of the “agricultural door” Class “, 100% actually started to shift the target of being targeted to the cities and tried hard to change the family’s work style of” facing the loess back to the sky "so that the wish of marrying the town girl and the wish of eating grain for generations to come became a reality. In the meantime, the traditional intention of mate selection was changed in groups of young officers in the same military community and even in the same barracks. Some changes took place: some began to aim at the Cupid arrows at individual girls. Some have hit the target, some are waiting to be sent. And this phenomenon has a tendency. This article makes some concrete analyzes on the phenomenon that young officers choose individual girls as wives.