我认识的一对男女深深地堕入了爱河,尽管他们相爱时已是人到中年——女士39岁,男士47岁。在这之前,两人都未婚,但却已目睹了周围的朋友们在缔结这一神圣关系后所经历的许多现实问题。于是他们决心未雨绸缪,以便对婚后可能遇到的各种困难尽可能做到防患于未然。他们通过律师,就财产问题起草了一份婚前协议,又请一位心理医生事先就婚后可能出现的紧张心理予以指导,并在这位心理医生的帮助下,将他们对实际问题的承诺书写成文。 A man and a woman I know fall deeply in love, even though they are middle-aged when they fall in love - women are 39 and men are 47. Until then, both were unmarried, but they had witnessed many of the real problems experienced by the friends around them after the conclusion of this sacred relationship. So they are determined to take precautions so that the various difficulties they may encounter after marriage may be prevented as far as possible. Through a lawyer, they drafted a prenuptial agreement on the issue of property. They also asked a psychiatrist to prejudice the nervousness that may arise after marriage, and with the help of the psychologist, write down their commitment to the actual problem written.