目前,独生子女中一个比较突出的问题是依赖性强,如何消除这种依赖性呢?除了不要对孩子过分宠爱和事事包办代替外,还应从以下两个方面来考虑。一、让孩子认识自我。美国学者寇迪尔曾调查研究过东、西方的母子关系,并加以比较,从中看出两者之间最大的一个差别是东方母亲很少和孩子交谈,美国母亲则常和孩子谈话。他认为,东方的母亲倾向于把 At present, one of the more prominent issues of the only child is the strong dependence. How to eliminate such dependency? In addition to not favoring the children and replacing everything with one another, we should consider the following two aspects. First, let the child know oneself. American scholar Kodier has investigated East-West mother-child relationship and compared them to see the biggest difference between the two is that Eastern mothers rarely talk to their children while American mothers often talk to their children. He believes that Eastern mothers tend to put