从家庭教育角度来看,“管与放”顾名思义,是指家长对孩子的严格管理和解除约束。步入父母行列的人对“管与放”的理解、感悟是因人而异的。有的人喜欢它们,并借助其“魅力”,使自己的孩子学会做人、做事,健康成长;有的人惧怕它们,究其原因,是由于与前者借力效果适得其反。忆往昔,古今中外功成名就者,无 From the perspective of family education, “management and release” as the name suggests, refers to the strict management of the parents and the lifting of the constraints of their children. Into the ranks of parents who “tube and release” understanding, perception varies from person to person. Some people like them and make use of their “charisma” to make their children learn how to behave, work and grow healthily. Some people fear them. The reason is that it is counter-productive to the former. Recalling the past, ancient and modern Chinese and foreign fame, no