到大学后,我突然发现自己“跟人打交道很有压力”。当时中国学生不多,也没有专门的华人圈子(当然,现在想想有了这样的圈子也未必好)。有时候,当我走进一个Party,看到大家在那里聊天、喝酒、开玩笑,就这样发散式地交流,我总觉得走过去面对一个不认识的人很难张嘴。所以去了几次新生Party之后,我反问自己怎么会变成这样子,连嘴都张不开了? After college, I suddenly found myself “deal with people very pressure ”. At that time, there were not many Chinese students and there was no specific ethnic group in China at that time (of course, it is not necessary to think about such a circle now). Sometimes, when I walk into a party and see people chatting, drinking and joking there, I can communicate in such a divergent manner that I always feel it hard to open my mouth when faced with an unknown person. So after I went to Newborn Party several times, I asked myself how I could become like this, without even opening my mouth.