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适当地、友好地美言你几句,你也许是乐于接受的。作为一个凡人,总是留意别人对你感觉,评价过低会使你情绪低落,评价适中又觉得平淡,而要是稍稍带点溢美之辞,尽管你嘴上谦辞,但心中窃喜,精神为之一振。因而,你需要别人对你真诚的美言,也喜欢得到一些不为过分的美言,这在情理之中。这种美言是善意的,是为了使你保持较好的自我感觉,增强生活的信心,其中没有诌媚成份,也不带任何功利的因素。是的,作为一个凡人,本应该这样。然而,假如你是一个有地位的人,或者有权在握,你就得认真对待这两个字所表达的含义。这时候,它的性质变了。这时候,有人会利用这不花钱的投资,从你口中获取他们所想要得到的东西。这两个字表达的内容对你来说也许是子虚乌有,但你如果一时飘然欲仙,就会慷慨回赠一些实实在在在的东西,甚至不惜一掷千金。当你清醒回转时,可能为时已晚。
You may be willing to accept a few words, properly and amicably. As a mortal, always pay attention to the feelings of others, too low an evaluation will make you feel depressed, moderate evaluation and feel dull, and if a little bit overflowing with the United States, despite your modest words, but the hearts of delirium, the spirit of the Flutter. Therefore, you need people to sincerely you say good things, but also like to get some over-arrogance, which is reasonable. This beauty is good intentions, is to make you maintain a good sense of self, and enhance the confidence of life, there is no flattering ingredients, without any utilitarian factors. Yes, as a mortal, this should be the case. However, if you are a status person or have the right to take control, you have to take seriously what the two words mean. At this time, its nature has changed. At this time, someone will use this non-spending investment to get what you want from your mouth. The content of these two words may not be absurd for you, but if you have a moment’s wishful thinking, you will generously give back some real things, even at big bucks. When you wake up awake, it may be too late.