人最怕孤独“鳏寡孤独”是古词。《孟子·梁惠王下》:“老而无妻曰鳏,老而无夫曰寡,老而无子曰独,幼而无父曰孤;此四者,天下之穷民而无告者。”孟子为啥要对梁惠王说鳏寡孤独?是劝梁惠王爱民,爱民为啥要从爱鳏寡孤独做起?因为自古民苦,而鳏寡孤独乃苦中之苦。如果连苦中之苦也不能同情照顾,皇帝还有何用?人,年轻有福不算福,老年有福才算福。而老年最怕孤独,夫妻亲热了一辈子,吵闹了一辈子, People are most afraid of lonely “widowed lonely ” is the ancient words. “Mencius Liang Hui Wang”: “old without wife said 鳏, the old and no husband said widowhood, old and no child Yue independence, young and fatherless alone; these four, the world’s poor but without notice ”Why did Mencius want to say to Liang Hui Wang widowed lonely? Is to advise Liang Hui Aimin, Aimin why we should start from love and widowed loneliness? Since the ancient people suffering, and loneliness and loneliness is bitter suffering. If even the suffering of bitterness can not sympathize with the care, what is the use of the emperor? People, young and blessed are not fortunate, elderly blessed is blessed. The elderly are most afraid of loneliness, husband and wife affectionate life, noisy life,