“围在城里的人想逃出来,城外的人想冲进去,对婚姻也罢,职业也罢,人生的愿望大都如此。”钱钟书先生以此向我们揭示了人生万事如“围城”的一种精神困境和一个被哲理化了的生存悖论。在当今这个充满机遇与挑战、放任与传统、忠诚与背叛的年代里,由于受到西方文化的影响,以及个? “People in the city want to escape, and people outside the city want to rush in, to marry or to work, and most of their wishes in life.” Mr. Qian Zhongshu thus revealed to us everything in life, such as “Besieged City” A spiritual predicament and a philosophized survival paradox. In the present era full of opportunities and challenges, laissez-faire and tradition, loyalty and betrayal, due to the influence of Western culture and one?