结婚时的“份子钱”一直以来都是亲朋好友赠予新人的祝福形式之一,送多送少并没有明确定数,量力而行就好。但是,现在的婚礼,不仅排场越弄越大,份子钱也越给越多,因而许多人面对“份子钱”压力也越来越大。对此,有人认为给份子钱很麻烦,给多给少都不合适,还不如送些礼物实在。许常健(湖北宜昌):其实“份子钱”是这样的,年轻人结婚时,没多少钱,所以,大家凑钱给他们,帮他们办婚礼,缓解了他们的当前压力。作为长辈,其 Marriage at the time “member money ” has always been friends and relatives to give as one of the blessings of newcomers, send more to send less is not a clear set number, just do what you can. However, the present wedding is not only getting bigger and bigger, but also giving more and more money to its members. As a result, many people are under increasing pressure to pay more for their money. In this regard, some people think it is very troublesome to give money to less than give less suitable, might as well send some gifts. Xu Changjian (Yichang, Hubei): In fact, the “money for the children” is such that young people do not have much money when they get married. Therefore, they are all given their money to help them to get their wedding done and alleviate their current pressures. As elders, it