一直以来,我认为走到生命的尽头是一件极尽悲哀之事。在帮助患者时,总习惯性赋予同情的基调。但近年来,我所发现的问题已远超自己施教的文化储备。死亡之诡异在于“它的到来将打破既往的人生追求和价值观,一切都将随着生命的消失而走向不存在”。此时,怎样的调整才可以使亲历者保持优雅风范做到淡然转身?这俨然已经成 All along, I think it is an extremely sad thing to come to the end of life. In helping patients, the general habit of giving the keynote of sympathy. But in recent years, the problems I have discovered are far beyond the cultural reserves I teach. The strange thing about death is that “its arrival will break the past pursuit of life and values, and everything will go away as life disappears.” At this point, what kind of adjustment can make the witness to maintain the elegant style of indifferent turn? This seems to have become