8月9日中午,听到吕锦华的噩耗,已经是她病逝的一周之后。她于8月2日晚上在加拿大辞世。我一下午心绪不宁,有关她的记忆丝丝缕缕,不成片断。傍晚时分,心境稍静,才在微信上匆匆写成一篇短文,纪念30多年的友情。被文瑜要去登《苏州杂志》。过了一天,浩锋讯告,他们想编一本吕锦华纪念专辑,约我悼文。我觉得于情于理,必须再写一篇,尽管往事纷乱,一时语塞。其实,那天下午,我的心情夹杂着不安和懊悔。这八九年来,与她很少见面,只在 At noon on August 9, I heard Lu Jinhua's bad news, already a week after her death. She died in Canada on the night of August 2. I am restless in my mind about her memory, not a fragment. In the evening, I was relieved to write an essay in WeChat to commemorate the friendship of more than 30 years. Wen Yu is going to board “Suzhou Magazine.” After a day, Hao Feng reported that they wanted to compile a Lv Jinhua album and asked me to write a memento. I feel empathy, we must write an article, despite past chaos, temporary language plug. In fact, that afternoon, my mood mixed with restlessness and remorse. For eight or nine years, she rarely meets, only in