近年来,在心理咨询工作中我接触到许多在婚恋中遭遇到挫折,受到欺骗的女性,她们中不乏聪明能干、有知识、有教养之人,可是为什么面对那些风流倜傥的爱情骗子,她们一而再,再而三的迷失自我,走不出虚幻的诱惑呢?难道真如人们所说的:男人总是喜新厌旧,女性自古红颜薄命?深入了解这些女性的心,你就会发现,其实正是虚荣心坑害了她们,给那些别有用心的男人可乘之机,他们利用社会开放的环境 In recent years, I have come across many women who have suffered setbacks and deceptions in marriage and counseling. Among them, I am smart, competent, knowledgeable and educated. But why do I face the romantic coolest lovers? Again and again, lost again and again, can not go beyond the illusion of temptation? Is it really as people said: men are always resentment, women have long been depraved? Deep understanding of these women’s heart, you will find that in fact Is vanity hurt them, give those who have ulterior motives the opportunity to take advantage of the open environment of their society