家庭教育对孩子的影响极大,教育得当能促进孩子成长、成才;教育不当会阻碍孩子的发展,影响孩子的前途。在家庭教育中应避免下面几种不当的教育方法。首先是威胁。例如,大人用威胁的口吻对孩子说:“你再不听话,我就……”尽管这类威胁在大人心目中认为十分有用,但对孩子却不一定有效果。因为威胁是对孩子自主权的挑战,只要孩子有点自尊,他必定会故意与大人对着干,以此来显示他不是个胆小鬼。其次是收买。收买就是明明白白告诉孩子,如果他做了(或者不做)某件事的话,就能得到奖赏。如“如果你听话,就……”的许愿方法,有时能刺激孩子 Family education has a great impact on children. Proper education can promote the growth and success of children. Improper education can hinder the development of children and the future of children. The following types of inappropriate education should be avoided in family education. The first is a threat. For example, an adult threatens his child and says, “You’re not obedient, I ...” Although such threats are considered useful in the eyes of adults, they are not necessarily effective for children. Because the threat is a challenge to the child’s autonomy, as long as the child is a bit self-respect, he will certainly deliberately work with the adult to show that he is not a coward. Second is to buy. Buying is plainly telling your child that if he does (or does not) do something, he will be rewarded. Wishing methods such as “If you obey, ...” can sometimes stimulate children