女儿六岁,我对她期望很高,要求也很严格。最近一段时间,我发现她总是编一些谎话夸赞自己。比如,一幅画明明是其他小朋友画的,她却说是自己刚刚画好的;明明是外婆整理的房间,她却说是自己整理的。我不知道该怎么办才好。有时候我会认真戳穿,告诉她要诚实,可是这种做法好像并不能阻止她。在不注意的时候,她又在编一些谎话。我担心极了。洪明:您是一个对结果非常关注的家长,孩子的行为一定是迎合家长而导致的。她编造谎话是为了讨好您,希望得到您的肯定,但她不知道谎话本身就是错 My daughter is six years old. I have high expectation on her and the requirements are very strict. Recently, I found that she always made some lies to praise myself. For example, a picture is obviously drawn by other children, but she said she just drew a good painting; it was obviously a grandmother finishing the room, but she said she was finishing. I do not know what to do. Sometimes I seriously punctuate and tell her to be honest, but this does not seem to stop her. When she did not pay attention, she made some lies again. I am very worried. Hong Ming: You are a parent that pays close attention to the result, and the child’s behavior must be due to parents. She made a lie to please you, hoping to get your approval, but she did not know that the lie itself was wrong