到了新的环境,孩子常常恐惧不安,畏首畏尾。此时,父母不要急着让孩子融入环境,不妨找到缓冲情绪的方式,让孩子一点点过渡。周末我带两岁4个月的儿子去参加朋友组织的亲子聚会。这是我第一次单独带儿子到一个陌生的场合,心里不免有点小小的忐忑:他到了目的地不肯进去怎么办?如果他哭闹起来,我搞不定怎么办?而且他还经常尿裤子,便便了总是马后炮才告诉你,可大热天的我又不愿意给他用尿不湿…… Into the new environment, children are often horrified, timid. At this point, parents do not hurry to integrate children into the environment, may wish to find ways to buffer the emotions, so that children a little bit of transition. On weekends, I bring my son, who is 4 years old and 4 years old, to a friend and parentage gathering. This is my first time with my son alone to a strange scene, my heart can not help but a little bit shabby: he arrived at the destination refused to go how to do if he was crying, I’m not sure how to do? And he often urine Pants, poop always tell you after the gun, but hot day I do not want to give him a diaper ...