择偶作为一种社会现象,不仅仅是男女两个人的事,它还容易受家庭、社会环境的影响和制约。近年来中国的离婚率有所上升,上海社科院的徐安琪(2007)提到2005年全国的离婚率接近1980年的四倍。很多离异者在积极寻找着新的姻缘。然而与未婚者不同的是,虽然现在社会的观念不断开放,但离异者想要重新建立家庭,还是或多 As a social phenomenon, mate selection is not only a matter of both men and women, but also is easily influenced and restricted by the family and social environment. In recent years, the divorce rate in China has risen. Xu Anqi (2007) of the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences mentioned that the rate of divorce in China in 2005 was nearly four times that of 1980. Many divorcees are actively looking for new marriage. However, unlike unmarried people, although the concept of society is constantly opening up, the divorcee wants to rebuild their family or is more