现代家庭特别是城市家庭 ,父母并不缺乏教养子女的责任感 ,更大的困惑是不知如何把孩子教养好。家庭教育是个系统的多侧面的话题。常见家长为“家庭辅导”作用不大而苦恼。对此首先要解决几个认识误区问题。误区之一 :树大自然直。很多家长认为 ,我小的时候父母并未辅导过我的 Modern families, especially urban families, parents do not lack the sense of responsibility to educate their children, the greater confusion is that I do not know how to nurture their children. Family education is a systematic multi-faceted topic. Common parents for “family counseling” little effect and distress. First of all, we must solve several problems of misunderstanding. One of the errors: the tree straight. Many parents think that when I was young, my parents did not mentor me