“惩罚并不能阻止不良行为,它只能使行为者在犯错时变得更加小心、更加巧妙地掩饰以及更有技巧而不被发现。小孩遭受惩罚时,他会暗下决心下一次要更小心,而不是要更诚实、更负责。”美国著名儿童心理学家、教育家海姆·G·吉诺特博士这段话告诉我们,惩罚不当往往会收到适得其反 “Punishment does not stop bad behavior, it only makes the actor more cautious, more subtle in disguise and more skillful in her mistakes.” When a child is punished, he will make up his mind to be more careful next time , Not to be more honest and responsible. "The remark by Dr. Hem G. Guinott, a famous American psychologist and educator, tells us that improper punishment tends to be counterproductive