我是《家长》杂志的忠实读者。《家长》杂志内容丰富多彩,使我受益匪浅。基于对贵刊的信任,我将目前遇到的一个问题向你们讨教,希望得到帮助。我的孩子现在是初三的学生,马上就要中考了。半年前,邻班的一个男生开始追求她。家长和老师发现苗头后立即进行了教育和劝阻,我相信起到了一定作用,但没有彻底使他们彼此收心。在此期间,我对我的孩子进行了正、反面所有的说教,也找到那个男孩儿当面谈话,告诉他不要影响彼此的学习。我对那男孩儿的态度始终是温和的,不想因过激的言行使事情变 I am a loyal reader of Parents magazine. I have benefited from the rich and varied content of Parents Magazine. Based on the trust in your magazine, I will ask you one question I currently have and I hope to get help. My child is now a junior student, and I’m going to take the test soon. Six months ago, a boy from an adjacent class began to pursue her. Parents and teachers found their signs immediately after education and discouraged, I believe it has played a certain role, but did not completely enable them to repose each other. During this time, I gave all positive and negative preaching to my children and found the boy face to face and told him not to affect each other’s learning. My attitude to that boy has always been mild, and I do not want to make things change due to exaggerated words