有些人总习惯于盯着别人的缺点不放,从而使自己失去了世界上很多的朋友。相反,如果你经常看到别人的优点,不计较别人的缺点,别人的心门将马上为你敞开,把你视为知己、挚友。古人云:“躬自厚而薄责于人。”意思是说人要反省自己的行为,严格要求自己,同时不 Some people are always accustomed to staring at other people’s shortcomings, thus losing many of their friends in the world. On the contrary, if you often see the merits of others, do not care about the shortcomings of others, other people’s hearts will be open to you, treat you as a friend, best friend. The ancients said: “bow thick and thin responsible for people.” Meaning that people want to reflect on their own behavior, strict demands on themselves, at the same time