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Q我和男友交往三年多,每次提起结婚,他就说要先立业再成家。半年前他被调往外地工作,很快跟我提出了分手,经我多方调查,发现他竟然已经和那里的一个女同事交往了仅仅四个月就领了结婚证。他竟然如此欺骗和愚弄了我!我好不甘心,又该如何放手!三年多的感情,你都到了恨嫁的年龄,他对未来却还没有设计,关系中的不合拍已经显而易见了。我相信你一定质疑过男友是不是爱着自己,质疑过你们的感情走向,但你却没有相应的、更主动或者说更自主一些的选择,只是陪伴、默默地照顾、相信并等待他,凭什么呀?
Q I have been with my boyfriend for more than three years. Every time I bring up a marriage, he says I want to start a career and get married again. He was transferred to the field six months ago and quickly broke up with me. After many investigations, he found that he had already engaged a female colleague there and only received marriage certificates in only four months. He had so deceived and fooled me! I was so resentful, and how to let go! More than three years of feelings, you have reached the age of hate marriage, he has not yet designed for the future, the relationship between the out of step has been obvious. I believe you must have questioned whether your boyfriend loves himself and questions your feelings, but you do not have a corresponding, more motivated or more autonomic choice but to accompany, silently take care, trust and wait for him what?