你是否遇到过这样的情况?过年时,孩子被震彻天际的鞭炮声吓哭;串门时,孩子对陌生人表现出害怕和躲避;带孩子大老远飞去海边,他却害怕玩水。当你对孩子的害怕表示费解时,不如换一个角度思考,我们真的正视过他们成长过程中的恐惧吗?周末,我带孩子在小区里玩,恰好看到这样一幕:有一种木头栈桥,中间 Have you ever met such a situation? When the New Year, the children were shocked by the sound of firecrackers scared to cry; when the door knocked out, the children showed fear of strangers and avoidance; with children flying all the way to the sea, he was afraid to play with water . When you are afraid of children expressed troubled, it is better to think from another perspective, we really face the fear of their growth process? Weekends, I play with children in the district, just to see such a scene: there is a kind of wooden bridge, intermediate