现在的孩子,常常以自我为中心,在与人相处的过程中,极易发生摩擦、冲突。而16～18岁的职高生正处于自我意识快速发展时期,对于人际交往中的矛盾冲突,往往意气用事,不能替对方着想,只觉得自己委屈,不知道自己对别人的伤害,不知道如何化解矛盾。对于这种情况,若不及时处理,对今后的成长会产生极大的负面影响。但是,只要积极寻求消除误解的良方,就能掌握处理误解的技巧和方法。一、创设情境,引出课题“我们的生活充满了笑声、歌声,充满了欢乐,荡漾着幸福,因为我们的身边有爸爸妈妈的呵护,爷爷奶奶的 Today’s children, often self-centered, in the process of getting along with others, prone to friction, conflict. The 16 to 18-year-old post-secondary high school students are in a period of rapid self-awareness, interpersonal conflicts and conflicts are often energetic, can not think each other, only feel their grievances, do not know their own harm to others, do not know how to resolve conflicts . For such a situation, if not handled in time, the future growth will have a tremendous negative impact. However, as long as you actively seek ways to eliminate misunderstandings, you can master the techniques and methods of dealing with misunderstandings. First, create the situation, leads to the subject ”Our life is full of laughter, singing, full of joy, rippling with happiness, because we have the care of parents, grandparents