1974年,我的母亲在纽约的一所女子天主教学校上大学三年级。她是一个优秀的学生,想成为一名专业教师。但是,她想成为一名教师的梦想被一个不期而来的孩子:她自己的孩子给打破了。在我的母亲上大三的时候怀上了我,不得不离开学校和我的父亲结婚了。但是,虽然我的母亲在形式上脱离了教育领域,但在实际上并没有与它完全脱离。 In 1974, my mother was in third grade in a Catholic school in New York. She is a good student and wants to be a professional teacher. However, her dream of becoming a teacher was taken by an unexpected child: her own children broke. My mom was pregnant with me when I was a junior, and I had to leave school and get married to my father. However, while my mother is formally out of education, she is not in fact completely separated from it.