有时候,一个女人会在她的家人、朋友面前夸口说她找到了永久的爱情,后来却发现错了。密歇根大学的社会学教授特里·奥巴克说:“下面这几件事可以让你明白,是否和他有共同语言、是否应嫁给他。”察其往以知其未来你的男朋友是否有让你难以释怀的一段故事?你要想想,假如这段故事重演,你们的关系是否还能保持下去。如果那只是在某一特定情况下的行为,说明那是一时的放纵,比如他刚毕业时参加派对过多,可是如果他现在对于派对还是乐此不疲,那么恐怕这习惯会成为他以后生活的一部分。 Sometimes, a woman boasted in front of her family and friends that she had found a permanent love and later found it wrong. Terry Obama, a sociology professor at the University of Michigan, said: “Here are a few things that will make you understand if you should marry him in a language that is common to him.” " Do friends have a story that makes you hard to explain? You have to think about it, if this story is repeated, whether your relationship can be maintained. If that’s just behavior in a particular situation, that is a temporary indulgence, such as when he just attended the party too much, but if he is still bored with the party now, I am afraid that this habit will become part of his later life.