在社会大力提倡赏识教育的今天,谈家庭教育中的惩罚问题多少有点儿不合时宜。然而,惩罚作为一种教育手段,一种微妙的家教艺术,在孩子漫长的成长道路上,却又实实在在地难以避免。当代著名儿童教育家孙云晓认为,没有惩罚的教育是残缺的教育。由此看来,作为一位负责任的家长,适当惩罚孩子是爱的表现,也是规范孩子行为的有效手段。那么,怎样惩罚孩子才能起到良好的教育效果呢? In today’s society, which advocates appreciative education, it is a bit out of place to talk about punishment in family education. However, as a kind of educational method, punishment is a delicate art of tutoring which is really unavoidable for the child’s long-term growth. Sun Yunxiao, a famous contemporary educator in education, believes that education without punishment is incomplete education. From this, as a responsible parent, proper punishment of children is a manifestation of love, but also an effective means of regulating children’s behavior. So, how to punish children can play a good educational effect?