导言: 本文是作者的亲身经历,相信很多年轻人阅读之后都会感同身受。编者第一次上网与人聊天也是非常兴奋,日夜废寝忘食地逗留在网吧里,那份新鲜感维持了好一段时间。在网络上,我们可以向素未谋面的人扮演着我们为自已塑造的角色,让自己尽情畅游于一个远离现实的空间中。然而,网友们仿佛都是仅仅存在网络中的虚拟对象,往往下了线之后,这些人便与我们毫无瓜葛。堪称挚友的人,很少。不过作者最后所采取的措施仍然稍显偏激,其实,只要我们能够端正自己的态度并加以适度调节,即时消息仍不失为一种颇具意义的通讯方式。 Introduction: This article is the author’s personal experience, I believe that many young people will feel the same after reading. The editor was very excited to chat with people on the Internet for the first time. He stayed in Internet cafes for days and nights, and his novelty was maintained for a long time. On the Internet, we can play the role that we have created for ourselves to those we have never met, and allow ourselves to swim in a space that is far from reality. However, netizens seem to be merely virtual objects in the network, and often these people have nothing to do with us. There are few people who are good friends. However, the measures taken by the author at the end of the day are still somewhat extreme. In fact, as long as we can correct our attitudes and make modest adjustments, instant messaging is still a rather meaningful means of communication.