我的公公婆婆都是退休教师。当他们还在工作的时候他们都是小县城中很有名气的教师。两位老人有一子二女,他们的家庭观念是:儿子与女儿相比较,儿子沾光。因为孙子跟儿子姓,而外孙不能跟女儿姓。他们还认为家中“养女哭灵堂,讨儿媳下厨房”。儿媳必须下厨房做家务,女儿呢,却坚决不能做。 My father-in-law is a retired teacher. When they are still working, they are well-known teachers in small towns. The two elderly people have one son and two women. Their family view is that their son is better at lighting than his daughter. Because the grandson is with his son’s surname, and grandchildren can not tell his daughter’s surname. They also think that at home, “raising a girl crying hall, discuss daughter-in-law kitchen.” Daughter-in-law must do the housework under the kitchen, daughter, but can not be determined.