在现实生活中，有的父母在教育孩子时，嗓门高、声音大，动辄训斥，特别是当发现孩子犯了错误时，更是大发雷霆，以为只有这样才能体现出家长的威严，才能使孩子认识和改正自己的错误，从而达到教育的目的。殊不知，这样做不但收效甚微，还会使孩子对父母产生对立情绪，造成亲 In real life, when parents are educating their children, their voices are loud and loud, and they are frequently scolded. Especially when they find that their children have made mistakes, they are even more furious. They think that only in this way can the parents show their dignity and make their children aware And correct their mistakes, so as to achieve the purpose of education. As everyone knows, this is not only ineffective, but also make the child have antagonistic mood of their parents, resulting in the pro