赵大爷饲养的小狗将邻居李大爷家门前鸟笼里的鸟咬死了,赵大爷不想因此和李大爷的关系闹僵,怎么办才好呢?本案涉及和解的问题。“和解”是在没有第三者参加的情形下,由民事纠纷事人约定互相让步或者一方让步,以解决双方的争执的活动。目前,国内人们所采取的“和解”主要可分为诉讼前的和解与诉讼中的和解。诉前和解是在诉讼前,双方当事人互相协商达成协议,解决双方争执。和解成立后,当事人所争执的权利即归确定,所抛弃的权利随即消失,当事人不得任意反悔要求撤销。诉中和解,则是当事人在诉讼进行中互相协商,达成协议,解决双方争执。这种和解不问诉讼程序进行如 Zhao uncle kept the neighbor Li uncle home bird cage bird bite died, Zhao uncle and therefore Uncle Li’s relationship between stiff, how to do it? This case involves the issue of reconciliation. “Reconciliation ” is the activity of settling disputes between the two parties without the participation of a third party, as agreed by civil dispute parties. At present, the “reconciliation” adopted by domestic people can be mainly divided into reconciliation before litigation and reconciliation in litigation. Before the lawsuit is settled, before the litigation, the two parties reached an agreement to settle the dispute between the two parties. After the reconciliation was established, the parties’ rights to dispute were settled and the right to be abandoned disappeared immediately. The parties concerned should not arbitrarily deny their claims for revocation. In the settlement of the complaint, the parties negotiated each other during the proceedings and reached an agreement to settle the dispute between the parties. Such reconciliation does not matter if the proceedings proceed