撇开浓浓的爱意不说,在“养儿子划算还是养女儿划算”这个问题上,中国父母和不少外国父母的感受出奇地一致:当然是养女儿划算。在中国,有一种开玩笑的说法是:养儿子无疑是要做“建设”银行的,养女儿则是一家坐等“招商”的银行。用通俗一点儿的话说就是,养个儿子是需要往外掏钱的,而养个女儿是可以往里收钱的。当然,掏钱和收钱并不完全是从经济角度说的,情感方面的收和支同样适用于此。 Leaving aside the strong love not to say, the feeling of Chinese parents and many foreign parents is surprisingly consistent on the issue of raising a good son or raising a daughter. Of course, raising a daughter makes a difference. In China, there is a joke that the raising of a son is undoubtedly a “building” bank, and raising a daughter is a “waiting for investment” bank. To put it plainly, raising a son requires going out for money, and raising a daughter can make money in the money. Of course, money and money are not entirely from an economic point of view, the emotional income and expenditure also apply to this.