如今的年轻父母对子女不再有长辈那种“棍棒之下出孝子”的陈旧观念,靠体罚孩子而达到家教目的的做法,已被大多数父母放弃。但是,一些年轻父母因望子成龙心切,或有意或无意,采取讽刺、挖苦、揭短等手段,使孩子在精神上造成了程度不同的伤害,我们姑且称之为“精神虐待”。 虐待的具体表现 一是对孩子实施精神控制。一些家长为使孩子学到更多的知识,在学校考到高分,除了学校 Today’s young parents no longer have the elder’s kind of “old-fashioned son out of obscenity,” the old idea of ​​relying on corporal punishment of children to achieve the purpose of tutoring has been abandoned by most parents. However, some young parents, due to their zeal, or their intentional or unintentional actions, have resorted to ironic, sarcastic, unmasking and other means to cause their children to have different degrees of spiritual damage. Let us call them “spiritual maltreatment.” One of the specific manifestations of abuse is to exercise moral control over the child. Some parents to make children learn more knowledge, test scores in school, with the exception of schools