孩子都是有学习兴趣与能力的,只是他们的兴趣与能力,会放到不同的事物上。我们要让他们把兴趣和能力放到学校的学习上,就要为他们装上“自控器”。我儿子两三岁时,我教他在家中的地板上画字:先画个人,再中间画一横,成了个“大”字;上面再画一笔,就画成了天空的“天”字。写一个口字,中间画一横一竖,成了“田”;田字上面出头,就成了“由”;下面再出头,就成了“申”字;把三个口字画到一起,就成了“品”字。对此,他便很着迷,自己模仿着造了很多字。我们走在大街上,他也喜欢读看到的字牌。所以,父母把孩子的兴趣与能力引导到 Children are interested in learning and ability, but their interest and ability, will be put on different things. We want them to put their interest and ability to school learning, they should be fitted with “self-control ”. When my son was two or three years old, I taught him to draw on the floor at home: first drawing an individual, then painting a cross in the middle, becoming a word of “big”; “Day ” word. Write a word, the middle of a horizontal portrait, became “Tian ”; Tian word above his head, it became “From ”; Here again, it became “Shen ” word; the three Draw a word together, it becomes “goods ” word. In this regard, he was very fascinated, himself made a lot of words imitate. We walk in the street, he also likes to read the plate seen. So, parents guide their children’s interests and abilities