人总在努力释放心灵的空间。比如说,人是需要自我解嘲的,在特定的情况下,说一些诙谐的话,让尴尬退回去,让自信从容多起来。其实,有些打趣自己的话语并非是自我解嘲。那是儿时一个夏天,母亲的脸上被马蜂蜇出了一个包。人们笑话母亲,说她天天躲在家里好吃好喝,楞是让自己长胖了。母亲却笑呵呵地打趣自己道:“我这是让这张脸长出一个手掌能拿它捧水呢!”母亲这样说只因为刚刚发生过一件事。 People are always trying to release the space of the soul. For example, people need to self-deprecate, under certain circumstances, to say something humorous, so embarrassed to go back, so calm self-confidence more. In fact, some jokingly his own words are not self-deprecating. That was a summer time when her mother’s face was stung by a camel. People jokes their mothers, saying that she hides at home every day to eat and drink delicious, Leng is to allow myself to gain weight. My mother smiled jokingly: “This is what makes this face grow a palm to hold it!” The mother said just because one thing happened.