我有一同事,每天都是紧锁眉头,一副不开心的表情,好似有许多的难事。一次,我和他聊天,便问及此事,他叹了口气,说:“你看工作上,我也尽力了,就是得不到提升;孩子也快高考了,考上大学后,学费也需要不少;还有老人,年龄也大了,需要照顾……想想这些,感觉真累,怎么还能高兴起来呢。”我一听,他说的都是事实,但光想也没什么用啊。我说:“你想就能解决问题?还是对问题能有什么帮助?”他说:“我也知道,但还是禁不住总想起这些事来。”我没再说什 I have a colleague, every day is locked brow, an unhappy expression, seems to have many difficulties. Once, I chatted with him, he asked the matter, he sighed and said: “You look at work, I also try my best, that is, without improvement; children are also college entrance examination, admitted to university, tuition Also need a lot; there are old people, age is also big, need to take care of ... ... think about these, feel tired, how can we be happy yet. ”“ I heard, he said is true, but the light also Useless ah I said: ”Do you want to solve the problem? Or can it help the problem?“ ”He said: “ I know, but still can not help but always remembered these things. ”I did not say