“猫爸”对孩子充满关爱和温情,但极少有要求和限制,他们允许孩子想做什么就做什么。在放纵型家庭长大的孩子,很难学习到自我控制,往往对父母或他人缺乏尊重,甚至会变得霸道、自我、固执,很难与同伴相处。而“狼爸”往往强调控制和无条件地服从,对孩子缺少关爱和温情。他们强加给孩子一些不经解释的规则,对孩子进行严密的限制和控制,还可能会经常惩罚孩子,甚至打骂孩子。在专制型家庭 “Cat Dad ” full of love and tenderness for children, but with few requests and restrictions, they allow children to do what they want to do. Children who have grown up in an indulgent family find it hard to learn self-control, often lacking in respect for their parents or others, or even become overbearing, self-motivated and stubborn and difficult to get along with. And “wolf daddy” often emphasizes the control and unconditional obedience, the lack of love and warmth to children. They impose some unexplained rules on the children, impose strict restrictions and controls on the children, and may punish or abuse children on a regular basis. In the autocratic family