在我任一所高中足球队主教练的第三年,我在给一群家长和学生讲踢足球的好处。这是招收新队员的惯例讲话,讲一些球队的精神和团结合作的必要性,我告诉我的听众,足球并不是为体育明星所专设的项目。演说结束后,一对夫妇走过来对我说,他们那体弱多病的儿子十分想踢足球。他们多次劝说都没有用。当他们告 In my third year as head coach of any high school soccer team, I was talking about the benefits of playing football for a group of parents and students. This is the usual practice of recruiting new players, talking about some team spirit and the need for unity and cooperation. I told my audience that football is not a project dedicated to sports stars. After the speech, a couple came over and told me that their infirm son wanted to play soccer very much. They repeatedly useless persuasion. When they tell