收到一名博友的微博留言,说她一直很担心自己会像妈妈那样焦虑、挑剔和依赖,从小到大都生活在想要逃离妈妈的渴望中。结果这几年她发现自己越来越像妈妈,几乎成了妈妈的翻版,老公常常抱怨说她和岳母一样挑剔!这既令她感到害怕也觉得不可思议,很希望我能给她解释一下并给一些改善的建议。 She received a microblog leave comment from a friend who said she has always been very worried that she will be as anxious, critical and dependent as her mother, and she will grow up in her longing to flee her mother. The results in recent years she found himself more and more like a mother, almost became a replica of her mother, her husband often complain that she and her mother as picky! This made her feel both terrified and incredible, I hope I can explain to her and give Some suggestions for improvement.